Style Desk | June 22, 2003, Sunday
Metrosexuals Come Out
By WARREN ST. JOHN (NYT) 1778 words
Late Edition – Final , Section 9 , Page 1 , Column 2
LEAD PARAGRAPH – BY his own admission, 30-year-old Karru Martinson is not what you’d call a manly man. He uses a $40 face cream, wears Bruno Magli shoes and custom-tailored shirts. His hair is always just so, thanks to three brands of shampoo and the precise application of three hair grooming products: Textureline Smoothing Serum, got2b styling glue and Suave Rave hairspray.
Mr. Martinson likes wine bars and enjoys shopping with his gal pals, who have come to trust his eye for color, his knack for seeing when a bag clashes with an outfit, and his understanding of why some women have 47 pairs of black shoes. (”Because they can!” he said.) He said his guy friends have long thought his consumer and grooming habits a little . . . different. But Mr. Martinson, who lives in Manhattan and works in finance, said he’s not that different.
Here’s the link. That’s just a snippet, I didn’t want to buy the whole article. But here’s a link in case you want to read the whole thing and don’t mind buying it. 🙂 http://query.nytimes.com/gst/abstract.html?res=F60E15F6345C0C718EDDAF0894DB404482
Now here are links to other metrosexual articles:
http://www.theage.com.au/articles/2003/03/10/1047144914842.html
http://www.salon.com/ent/feature/2002/07/22/metrosexual/
And Finally: From The Word Spy the defination of Metrosexual is: metrosexual
(MET.roh.sek.shoo.ul) n. A dandyish narcissist in love with not only himself, but also his urban lifestyle.
And here is a link to their article about where it came from and some examples of the word in use:
http://www.wordspy.com/words/metrosexual.asp
Now I ask you guys out there… are you pure gay or strait or are you a metrosexual? (I am not sure what a “manly man” homosexual guy would be called… sorry if you fit into this category but feel free to tell me if you know and/or feel you fit it!)
Frasier, we finally know what you and Niles are… you are metrosexuals! See ya at the Ballet! 🙂
velvetcat said:
aha
You know, I’ve known a few men like this over the years. I’ve been attracted to some of them, one that I remember in particular. He was the beautiful one. *sigh* He always wanted to wear my high heeled boots.
It’s not good for your self esteem at times. lol
I remember D waaay back in school – talk about narcisstic. lol He’s changed now – well a bit anyway. 😉
And one of my bros could be this.
Thanks Oz.
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Lady Ozma said:
Re: aha
I found it fascinating. I’ve definately known a few guys like this. Didn’t know they had an actual name. HEHE But apparently guys are owning up to it. I see nothing wrong with a guy who is in touch with his “feminine side”. In fact, I think they are easier to relate to. I can’t do macho man stuff. *GRINS*
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velvetcat said:
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I’ve never been attracted to the all-sports-rugged type. Outdoorsy fine, but no hunter sport playing for me thanks.
I know Oz, I don’t do macho man stuff either lol
Although, I enjoy walks or hikes, and being out in nature, just not in a manly way.
I swear D spends more time fussing with his hair than I do. lol Not that he’s femme, just that he’s always cared about hair. His mom said that she had to almost resew his jeans just so. (he’d kill me if he knew I said that)
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Lady Ozma said:
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Hmmm definately sounds like he has some metrasexual in him. 😉 But I won’t tell him you told me. HEHE My husband definately takes longer than me to primp.
I like the outdoors. I love to sit at my table and look at the little bit of woods behind my house. I like to walk in the woods on a clearly defined path. But that’s about it. I’m not a real down and dirty kind of person when it comes to nature. I am more appreciative of the beauty in a hands off sense. HEHE
How funny is this. When I was pregnant with Caramon I went camping for the first time. My pregnant SIL also went. So it was my MIL, my younger SIL, my younger BIL, my older pregnant SIL, her husband, and me. My MIL set the whole thing up. She told the guy that she HAD to be near the bathroom because she’d have two pregnant women with her. He stuck us next to a port-a-john. Gross. I do not use those unless there is extreme dire need. I’m sorry. Ick ick ick. Well there were real bathrooms about a quarter of a mile down from there. I walked to the real bathrooms if I had to go to the bathroom. Thankfully I didn’t have to use it that often. Not like my poor SIL. My gosh she went every 20 minutes! She was only like six or seven months! (She was a month further than I was.) I’d have died. I’d have requested a move in campsites!! LOL. Or I’d have been driving to the bathrooms!
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velvetcat said:
oh no!
Camping and pregnancy does not go together. I can’t imagine. Poor things! It’s bad enough going out, but in the middle of the night to those outdoor bathrooms. Noooo!
I remember the last time we camped with some friends on their honeymoon. Yes, it’s true. It was soooo cold at night, and the washrooms and showers only had cold water. It was miserable. And when I went back to work I had the worst cold.
I like the outdoors when I have a cabin for shelter at night. Besides the cats and dog wouldn’t go for the tent. 😉 They’re spoilt. lol
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Lady Ozma said:
Re: oh no!
it wasn’t so bad. I was only like 20ish weeks. So it wasn’t like I was huge or anything. And my inlaws sleep on air mattresses in their tents. So it was pretty comfortable. Thebad part was just that walking so far to go to the bathroom because I was not going to use that port a john! LOL Thankfully I didn’t have to go to the bathroom that often. Not like my SIL. She lived in the bathroom! I didn’t ever actually reach that point. I don’t know why. Guess I have a bigger bladder or something! She was only six weeks further along than me. *SHRUG*
hehe… i do think a cabin would be more fun. Just hang out and be comfortable for bed but have the outdoors to enjoy during the day! 🙂
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velvetcat said:
Re: oh no!
Yep, the best of both worlds is the way to go. 🙂
I detest those porta places. ick, they always smell. There are primitive campsites at this lake we go to, beautiful places, so quiet, but I detest those washroom facilities. Besides, it’s scary going in the middle of night when bears are possibly lurking about. lol
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Lady Ozma said:
Re: oh no!
I totally agree. Best of both worlds! 🙂 I’ll only go camping if my family goes with me. But i want real bathrooms.
And yes… I could see me getting eaten by bears. *SHUDDER* Bad thing about the wilderness… wild animals. I can barely tolerate the thought of tame animals. Only way I want to see wild animals is at the zoo. Guess those aren’t really all that wild are they though?
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velvetcat said:
no zoos no zoos lol
I guess I’m an advocate for working to keep animals in their natural habitat as much as possible. Although, sadly, one day zoos will be the only place left to see some animals. I realise that some zoos do a great job of keeping near extinct animals genetics around. So I can’t fault them for that.
But if I had my druthers I’d rather see animals where they belong. Zoos depress me. But that’s me. Okay /rant.
I have a healthy fear of bears. lol
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Lady Ozma said:
Re: no zoos no zoos lol
Someone recently told me there are no bears in Ohio. Good thing. IF it is true. HEHEHE There’s lots of woods here so I don’t know that I believe it. 😉
Zoos don’t bother me too much. But that’s because it is the only way I like to see animals. 🙂 IT is sad that they can’t be free, but then they’d be at risk to poachers and the like. 😦
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